DC, MD, and VA we haven't forgotten about you! Save the date of November 7, 2020. We're pulling up in DC and looking forward to connecting with you! Stay tuned for more details!
Halloween may not be the same this year BUT we're going to make the best of it. Get your costume or sexy outfit together and let's see if you'll win the prize! Join us for this Halloween themed girl's night in. We're curating this event for bi, curious and queer femmes of color. All attendees will be screened prior to ticket purchase.
This event will be limited attendees. Masks and temperature checks are required for entry. You will not be allowed entry if you have an elevated temperature or do not have a mask. Light food will be provided. Please bring your own bottle (drinks)! Interested in attending? Non-members complete the form here and we will be in touch!
There's been lots of talk about it. Join us as we watch the controversial Cuties. You can RSVP here.
Join us on Saturday, October 3, 2020 at 6:30pm for a socially distanced happy hour at Magic Hour Rooftop. Magic Hour Rooftop is a large indoor/outdoor venue with cool games and drinks. It's great for selfies and meeting new people! Please be mindful and considerate of COVID-19 protocol. Magic Hour Rooftop is admission by reservation ONLY. We have reserved a table and limited seats are available. We are implementing a RSVP fee of $5 for non-members to avoid no shows. This event is curated for femmes of color.
On August 5, 2020, we're launching another signature event we're calling "Girl Talk with G & Dee"! We're excited about this event and hope you are too.
Girl Talk with G & Dee will launch as a two part series hosted by "Straight"... But Not Narrow Ladies founders, G & Dee. Part 1 will be a Virtual Mixer & Girl Talk for the "girlie girls that like girlie girls" and Part 2 will be An Intimate Mixer held in NYC.
We know how important it is for women of color to have safe spaces. "Straight"... But Not Narrow Ladies offers its members safe spaces to connect and express their thoughts and feelings. Girl Talk w/ G & Dee will be open to women of color and center on those with more fluid sexualities and underrepresented sexual preferences.
Once the world becomes safer and more stable, we will host our signature Girls Talks and Mixers in various areas across the country and abroad. Stay tuned!
Welcome to our new blog!
We thought it would be a great idea to launch our blog and reveal our new logo at the same time. Seemed like a good idea! So get ready for the long transparency post below. It's open, honest and yes... long.
You've been warned!
We're overjoyed about this beautiful new logo! The process creating it was interesting. Coming up with a visual concept that properly reflected our brand/message AND be able to explain and dissect the fundamentals and big picture of said brand and its members to graphic designers was hard af. Having conversations with designers about how THEY believe the logo should look and how THEY felt the brand should be represented was eye opening and at times hurtful. It reminded me of why we created "Straight"... But Not Narrow Ladies.
Women of color tend to over compensate and over explain themselves as a result of not being heard and understood. We are very conscious of how we're perceived and how that perception may hinder us. To be a feminine woman of color that is interested/ attracted to/ sexually active with other feminine women is a huge taboo in many families, social circles, systems, places and spaces. While no one has the right to define or judge you, we all know bias, discrimination, taboos and microaggressions are VERY real. With that said, we applaud those that have found their way to be comfortable in their own skin. To be their authentic selves when and wherever. We celebrate them as that's a victory but we know this isn't everyone's reality as some need to find their way.
We believe that everyone needs a safe space and our focus is to provide that space to bi femmes of color. To offer opportunities to connect with like minded women, express thoughts/desires, explore themselves and their sexuality without judgement and have a place where they can feel liberated while defining or embracing their truths.
We know we are not for everyone and that's ok because everyone is not for us. We recognize that many of our members and potential members are not "out" and that's ok. Yes, we are fully aware that our target audience consists of not only single and dating, but also, situationship and married women of color. The same women of color that often times feel uncomfortable about sharing their sexual preferences with others as a result of all the issues we stated in the previous paragraph. It makes growing our membership extremely challenging (HARD AF) but it is what it is. We understand the discomfort and fear. We realize our families, friends, colleagues and society in general is not open to receive this. So we exist and search for our sisters. We know they need us!
Our logo is our acceptance, support and celebration of the brown and black women that recognize their need for non-judgemental sisters, that know their sexuality isn't confined to a heteronormative box, that are missing something and ready to take the steps needed to embrace their authentic selves! Do you know what we mean? Is this you sis?
If this post resonates with you, please join us! Follow us on Instagram at @straightbutnotnarrowladies. You can DM us on Instagram or email us. Just connect with us. You're not alone sis! We're here for you, because sometimes girls that look "straight", aren't and we know exactly how that feels.
"Straight"... But Not Narrow Ladies because sometimes girls that look "straight", aren't.